My daughter, September 2025. Balloons filling, not yet lifted.
Monday night I stepped outside with my friend while she had a cigarette.
It was cold enough that I turned right back around and w...
What 9/11, Hebb's Law, and a bench at the memorial taught me about how trauma wires in and how we rewire it
I watched it happen on television.
Over and over. I think most of us did. We were in sh...
(Why holding two things at once can become a way to avoid feeling either one fully).
"Both/and" is one of my favorite concepts in healing work.
The idea that two things can be true simultaneou...
(Why feeling MORE dysregulated might mean your healing is actually working.)
I just had a hard week.
I was with family I love deeply, navigating some unexpected health concerns, stress in the hou...
I've been stretching my pinky toe.
It's been a little too friendly with its neighbor for as long as I can remember, just leaning in, curling slightly, making itself at home. It's always just been that...
What a client taught me in 2015 that changed everything about how I do this work
A client said something to me in 2015 that I didn't have a good answer for.
"We rolled on that emotion before and ...
Before I recorded my first podcast episode earlier this month, the self-doubt showed up.
Loudly.
Who do you think you are? You're no expert. What if you freeze? What if you say the wrong thing?
I t...
Last week, my whole world started spinning.
Literally.
As I rolled over in bed one morning, vertigo hit hard. My first instinct? Grip the sheets. Squeeze my eyes shut. Force my body into stillness.
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