(Why holding two things at once can become a way to avoid feeling either one fully).
"Both/and" is one of my favorite concepts in healing work.
The idea that two things can be true simultaneou...
I believe our thoughts create our feelings most of the time.
Our feelings produce our actions and inactions.
For example, when I’m feeling frustration I might raise my voice (action)
or walk away a...
I used to be addicted to cigarette smoking.
There was this love/hate relationship I had with smoking and myself.
It’s like there were two parts of me constantly at war.
The two parts battling were ...